Unbelievably, I write this blog having been back in the UK for a few weeks now. What began as a pipe dream in my head years ago, has come to an end. Very abruptly.
Before we left the land of good weather, we picked our top 10 places we have stayed during our 10 months in SE Asia. We started in Sri Lanka and went on to see Thailand, Malaysia, Cambodia, Indonesia and Vietnam.
Admittedly we did not see as much as we could have but this was outweighed by being able to stick to a budget, stay on top of home schooling and getting to know a place a lot better than you do in a few days.
So, in descending order, our top 10 places you should visit if you ever get the chance to come to SE Asia.
10. Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
K.L as those in the know call it, became a bit of a second home to us, mainly due to the airport and the extremely convenient Air Asia. We always stayed in the same area, near K.L. Sentral Station and we always loved our time there. It’s clean, pretty calm in comparison to other cities in the region and above all you get a mean curry if you know where to go. We loved the food there – loved it.
Dosa and teh tarik at our favourite Indian veggie restaurant
It’s great for shopping – if you like old school Indian type hypermarkets you must visit Haniffa in Masjid India area. It’s got everything and its cheap. We could have spent £100s on cloths and materials alone. You also have the street market in China town for all your fakes, Central Market for really nice local crafts and Bukit Bintang for your more high end shopping, Dubai style, including Arab restaurants.
For kids it has loads. On the top floor of the Petronas Towers is the Discovery Centre which you could spend a full day in, especially if you home school. The Islamic Arts Museum was excellent and it is close to the Bird Park which is worth the entrance fee.
Just a great little city all-round; but another little city that stole our hearts a bit more was
9. Banda Aceh, Indonesia
To be honest, I don’t know why we ended up in Aceh. I never realised it was so close to K.L. and that it was so cheap to fly to. Plus it seemed to have the sort of history only a place with gravitas can have about it. Ancient peoples, Islamic sultanate, fights for independence and of course, the tsunami. So it had a draw to it and if worse came to worse it wasn’t far to back peddle.
Traditional Acehenese marriage throne
But Banda Aceh was a surprise. The people were just incredible. I think perhaps the softest, kindest, warmest and most genuine people we spent time with on our trip. You constantly felt as if you were with family even if you were with strangers. You literally take photos with strangers who smile, hug, shake hands and speak to you as if they know you.
Banda Aceh itself is tiny; dominated by the Masjid Raya Bayturrahman. This was the impressive “tsunami mosque” and it was without question a jewel in the city.
I think any member of the family however will say that the Tsunami Museum was a highlight, in a good/bad way. Seeing something on TV is one thing, going and walking around a dome of a mosque that was dragged 7km away with people’s bodies underneath it still, or a boat on a house or speak to someone who lost their mother and two sisters that day, and it hurts you. Seeing what the people lived through was harrowing; yet their smiles, their love and their hope is also equally inspiring.
This dome was lifted off the mosque and carried 7km inland by the tsuanmi. The families of those who died underneath it asked that they remain in situ.
If you do ever go to Banda Aceh, please consider staying at Eddie’s. He is a bit out of town, and it is a place for surfers mainly, but Eddie is the nicest person you will meet in your life. In fact, it is worth going just so you can meet the nicest person in your life. On top of that you will be 5 minutes walk away from a beach yet untouched by the hands of money and foreign eyes.
The boys playing with Alex the Russian kite surfer who we used to have breakfast with every morning at Eddie’s and talk about wind (the weather variety).
I must also take this opportunity to thank Banda Aceh for educating me in what coffee really is. I had always been a milk and sugar man, however in Indonesia you don’t really find anything other than condensed milk which I find rank. So I was forced to drink black and I had stopped using white sugar. I am now reborn – a new man who has seen the light.
Go see Banda Aceh before it’s spoiled and becomes overrun with tourists. Although, our next place, despite the bus loads of Chinese and other tourists, wasn’t so bad.
8. Galle, Sri Lanka
Although Galle claims perhaps the worst nights’ sleep with the most mosquito bite per hour ratio we had in 10 months, it still makes our top 10. It is just such a wonderful place with loads of history; it’s just the perfect walled sea fort city you want to stroll around. Lovely coffee shops, antique shops and of course the ramparts.
Slowly getting used to wearing sarongs
It is also in Galle, you will find our top restaurant for our whole trip in the entire SE Asia, ever…..India Hut. Just the best curry, in the best time at the best price, with the best view. We ate here a lot.
Perhaps Galle was so nice because we go to know a lot of the local community quite quickly. This really tapped us into the place’s history, what was happening now in terms of tourism and the few locals left in the old city walls and most of all the deep Sufi roots that Galle has.
Locals swimming outside one of the mosques in Galle
A top tip if you ever visit Galle, take a tuk tuk about 15 mins south of Galle towards Weligama and book yourself a night of two at a hotel on a small beach called Wijaya Beach. One of the nicest we stayed at in terms of calm waters, fish and beautiful coconut trees.
The very tropical Wijaya Beach, Galle
Galle is good for a few days, but after that you would have seen and done it all. Unlike, our next destination, which is also perhaps the biggest regret of the whole trip – we should have explored Vietnam more.
7. Ho Chi Min City a.k.a Saigon, Vietnam baby
Visiting Vietnam was bucket-list stuff for me. However, its left us all wanting more as we were so impressed.
Ho Chi Min city was mental. The traffic is mental, the energy is mental, the history is mental, the politics is mental but the people are far from it. The Vietnamese are a rather cool and cultured bunch.
We naturally did all the usual tourist sites like the Presidential Palace, War Museum, etc plus some other bits like the Dam Sen Waterpark which was superb and a trip down to the Mekong Delta to see a floating village and how they make food stuffs from coconuts.
Highlight has to be the Chu Chi tunnels – if nothing will give you respect into what the Vietcong accomplished, this will. It’s mind boggling people lived in these tunnels for months on end.
We also took the chance to indoctrinate the kids into Communist political thinking at KizCiti which was worth every single penny.
Vietnam was a bit of a struggle for us food wise. Although there are veggie options, they are fairly limited and we didn’t seem to find the right quality or the rice place(s) to eat. We won’t miss the food, although we will definetly say that about number 6.
6. Malacca, Malaysia
There was just something about Malacca. There is not much need other than to point to this blog about our time there to explain why we enjoyed it so much.
Highlight was discovering “escape games” which we were then hooked on for the rest of our trip.
Lockdown in Malacca – we passed 1, failed 2.
If you ever visit Malaysia, make sure you visit this funky little city. Loads of history, although perhaps not quite as much as Cambodia’s national treasure.
5. Angkor Watt, Cambodia
Just mind-blowing. Angkor Watt makes the pyramids in Egypt look like Aldi car park in comparison. The place is like being in an Indian Jones film. It’s just jaw-dropping.
You spend your days in tuks tuks with the wind in your hair, whizzing past rural life in Cambodia and walking among ancient temples and jungle. Your afternoons and evenings can be a swim, markets or food. A “must-see” is the Phare Circus as well as the military museum. Your guide will be a veteran of the civil war and they will give you a haunting insight into what people went through in that war and how it was imposed upon them by foreign powers.
Russian tanks left over from the brutal civil war
4. Koh Lanta, Thailand
The sound of waves crashing, reggae of in the near distance, sky full of stars and nothing to do but relax. This was our evenings on the sublime island of Ko Lanta. By day we;d be zipping about on mopeds, walking, swimming or taking the boys to the local madrassa for Arabic lessons and for us to give English lessons; how I miss it.
The boys at a ceremony held by the madrassa
If you are looking for an tropical island, with stunning beaches, lots to do, good food and a bit of a hippy vibe, look no further than Ko Lanta. It’s essentially everything you would want other than the full moon party nonsense.
Top tip: prices tumble before the peak season and at the end of it. You can save serious money on hotels if you go at these times and get some of the best beaches in Thailand to yourself.
Another top tip: if ordering chicken soup, be warned, it comes with feet included.
Yet another packed beach…stressful
3. Chiang Mai, Thailand
The last stop on our trip, Chiang Mai is probably one of the best cities in the world. It’s got everything in the right proportions – it’s not too big, not too many people and it’s beautiful. Surrounded by mountains, rivers and lots of green.
Although the city we lovely, for us the joy was having our own villa after spending a month in Kuta, Lombok which we hated. We would spend the days homeschooling and the evenings cycling, playing sports or visiting one of the night markets.
Highlights:
Zak climbs the Bua Tong Waterfalls
The stunning Wat Phra That Doi Suthep
Boiling fresh quails eggs at San Kamphaeng Hot Springs
2. Pulau Weh, Indonesia
Heaven on earth. Simple as. This place is beyond stunning. If you can go see this island now before it’s ruined…which isn’t far away.
Daily routine: wake up, go to Dee Dee’s restaurant and have breakfast over an hour or so. Snorkel. Go to Dee Dee’s for lunch, again a long one. Snorkel. Go to Dee Dee’s for dinner. Watch stars. Sleep.
No it never became boring, not once. It was amazing. When you swim in waters as beautiful as these you live in a constant state of happiness…it’s hard not to love the world.
You can rent a hut, overlooking the sea, for £5-£10 a night. We ate like kings three times a day for £30 a day. It’s cheap, go see it and go see it now, you will thank me.
1. Weligama, Sri Lanka
We saw some stunning places in our time in Southeast Asia. Weligama wasn’t one of them. However, it comes in at number 1 because of the warm memories we all have of our time there.
Locals playing cricket on Weligama beach at sunset
We found a hotel overlooking the ocean with a huge balcony. We found the most incredible fresh juice and smoothy bar (70p for an avocado smoothy – 70p!!). We found the best curry house in town. We found some brilliant shopping. We found beautiful people. The whole time there was one of joy.
If you have kids who would like to learn to surf, then please consider Weligama. It’s not too far from Colombo. it’s cheap, it has loads to do, it is surrounded by some amazing beaches, you can get to Galle in an hour on a local bus for 40p but you have to stand with your face in someone’s armpit, you can get really good local food and if you are into shopping for different types of odd bits and bobs, this is the place.
The surfing is perfect for beginners – ours loved every second of it.
Perhaps though the best thing about Weligama was meeting this family. The family of Muhammad Abbas, the tuk tuk driver who randomly gave me a lift and turned out to be a meeting with one of the kindest souls on earth.
He took us to his house, made us curing herbal teas, cooked for us, took us around town and shared his heavy past serving in the army during the civil war.
People are good. Which perhaps sums up our experience of the past 10 months; people are good so get out there and meet some of them; they’ll change you.